All tangled up: Let’s get rid of “no strings attached” sex

All tangled up: Let’s get rid of “no strings attached” sex

Recently, much to my baffled delight, i discovered myself perched on an automatic washer being energetically fingered by a peoples male.

Well! This http://www.nakedcams.org/female/granny was an appealing (and enthusiastically consented-to) situation, maybe maybe not minimum of most because

  1. I am a(fine that is lesbian ok, I’m bisexual, but as my hilarious and gorgeous freshman roomie claims, “Reina. Guys will likely not make an effort to have intercourse with you when they read you calling yourself a lesbian in print.” To which we state: The creepy people will!), and
  2. I became on an automatic washer.

A lot more interesting: this specific peoples male had read a bit of mine on intimate ethics, hookup culture, and vulnerability, in which he had some concerns.

Particularly: Why on the planet can you communicate with a chick you fucked the morning after? Does not this just make shit more awkward for all of us?

I think that my pussy is really a diplomat, distributing feminism anywhere she goes. Appropriately, and hands being duly obtained from my vagina, we assumed our jobs all over dryer/campfire. Sharing time!

Towards the smart-asses noting you know, having sex: Sexuality is discursive, bitches that I prefer talking about sex to.

The topic of the hour: No strings connected intercourse.

We inhabit a tradition that dichotomizes intimacy. Oftentimes, we realize intercourse as either a love-you-forever, mind-body-and-soul, marry-me expertise in which two people are meant to care profoundly for just one another and treat one another correctly, or a throw-away, wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am, commodified, amoral journey round the roller rink. Читать далее «All tangled up: Let’s get rid of “no strings attached” sex»